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    Lightbulb حديث قدسي في فضل صلة الرحم










    عن عبد الرحمن بن عوف رضي الله عنه قال : سمعت رسول الله - - يقول : ( قال الله تبارك وتعالى : أنا الله وأنا الرحمن ، خلقت الرَّحِم ، وشققت لها من اسمي ، فمن وصلها وصلته ، ومن قطعها بتَتُّه ) .

    تخريج الحديث

    رواه الترمذي و أبو داود و أحمد في المسند ، قال الترمذي حديث صحيح ، وصححه الألباني .

    معاني المفردات

    الرحم : القرابة من ذوي النسب والأصهار .
    وصلها : الصلة البر وحسن المعاملة ، وهي كناية عن الإحسان إلى الأقربين والعطف عليهم , والرعاية لأحوالهم ، وقَطْعُ الرحمِ ضد ذلك كله .
    بتته : البت القطع .







    فضل صلة الرحم

    وردت أحاديث كثيرة ترغب في صلة الأرحام وتبين أجرها وثوابها ، فصلة الرحم شعار المؤمنين بالله واليوم الآخر ، وفي الحديث : ( من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليصل رحمه ) رواه البخاري ، وهي من أعظم أسباب زيادة الرزق والبركة في العمر ، قال - - : ( من أحب أن يبسط له في رزقه وينسأ له في أثره فليصل رحمه ) رواه البخاري ِ، وعند الترمذي أن رسول الله - - قال : ( تعلموا من أنسابكم ما تصلون به أرحامكم ، فإن صلة الرحم محبة في الأهل ، مثراة في المال ، منسأة في الأثر ) .

    وصلة الرحم توجب صلة الله للواصل ، وتتابع إحسان الله وخيره وعطائه على العبد ، كما دل ذلك الحديث القدسي الذي بدأنا به الموضوع ، وهي من أحب الأعمال إلى الله بعد الإيمان بالله وفي الحديث : ( أحب الأعمال إلى الله إيمان بالله ثم صلة الرحم ..... ) رواه أبو يعلى وحسنه الألباني .

    كما أن صلة الرحم من أسباب دخول الجنة وفي الحديث يقول - - ( يا أيها الناس أفشوا السلام ، وأطعموا الطعام ، وصلوا الأرحام ، وصلوا بالليل والناس نيام ، تدخلوا الجنة بسلام ) رواه أحمد و ابن ماجة .

    من كبائر الذنوب

    وقطيعة الرحم ذنب عظيم ، يفصم الروابط بين الناس ، ويشيع العداوة والبغضاء ، ويفكك التماسك الأسري بين الأقارب ، ولأجل ذلك جاءت النصوص بالترهيب من الوقوع في هذا الذنب العظيم ، وأنه من أسباب حلول اللعنة وعمى البصر والبصيرة قال سبحانه :{فهل عسيتم إن توليتم أن تفسدوا في الأرض وتقطعوا أرحامكم * أولئك الذين لعنهم الله فأصمهم وأعمى أبصارهم } ( محمد 23 - 22) ، وأن عقوبته معجلة في الدنيا قبل الآخرة ، قال - - : ( ما من ذنب أجدر أن يعجل الله لصاحبه العقوبة في الدنيا مع ما يدخر له في الآخرة من البغي وقطيعة الرحم ) رواه الترمذي وغيره ، وأنه من أسباب حرمان الجنة ورد الأعمال على صاحبها ، ففي البخاري من حديث جبير بن مطعم أن رسول الله - - قال : ( لا يدخل الجنة قاطع ) و جاء عن ابن مسعود رضي الله عنه أنه كان جالساً بعد الصبح في حلقة فقال : " أنشد الله قاطع الرحم لما قام عنا ، فإنا نريد أن ندعو ربنا، وإن أبواب السماء مرتجة - أي مغلقة - دون قاطع الرحم " .

    بم تكون الصلة ؟

    صلة الرحم تكون بأمور عديدة منها زيارتهم والسؤال عنهم ، وتفقد أحوالهم , , والإهداء إليهم , , والتصدق على فقيرهم ، وتوقير كبيرهم , ورحمة صغيرهم وضعفتهم ، ومن صلة الرحم عيادة مرضاهم ، وإجابة دعوتهم ، واستضافتهم ، وإعزازهم وإعلاء شأنهم ، وتكون - أيضًا - بمشاركتهم في أفراحهم , ومواساتهم في أتراحهم , والدعاء لهم , وسلامة الصدر نحوهم , وإصلاح ذات البين إذا فسدت , والحرص على توثيق العلاقة وتثبيت دعائمها معهم ، وأعظم ما تكون به الصلة , أن يحرص المرء على دعوتهم إلى الهدى , وأمرهم بالمعروف ونهيهم عن المنكر ، وبذل الجهد في هدايتهم وإصلاحهم .

    ليس الواصل بالمكافئ

    وقد يصل البعض أقاربَه وأرحامَه إن وصلوه ، ويقطعهم إن قطعوه ، وهذا ليس بواصلٍ في الحقيقة ، فإن مقابلة الإحسان بالإحسان مكافأة ومجازاة للمعروف بمثله ، وهو أمر لا يختص به القريب وحده ، بل هو حاصل للقريب وغيره ، أما الواصل - حقيقةً - فهو الذي يصل قرابته لله ، سواء وصلوه أم قطعوه ، وفيه يقول - -: ( ليس الواصل بالمكافئ ، ولكن الواصل الذي إذا قطعت رحمه وصلها ) رواه البخاري .

    وقد كان هذا حال الواصلين لأرحامهم على هذه الصورة من الإحسان حتى مع اختلاف الدين ، يشهد لذلك ما ورد أن رسول الله - - أهديت له حلل كان قد قال عن مثلها : ( إنما يلبس هذه من لا خلاق له ، فأهدى منها إلى عمر ، فقال عمر كيف ألبسها وقد قلت فيها ما قلت ؟ قال : إني لم أعطكها لتلبسها ، ولكن تبيعها أو تكسوها ، فأرسل بها عمر إلى أخ له من أهل مكة قبل أن يسلم ) رواه البخاري .

    ثم إن أفضل الوصل مقابلة الإساءة والعدوان بالبر والإحسان ، ولما جاء رجل إلى رسول الله - - وقال له : إن لي قرابة أصلهم ويقطعوني ، وأحسن إليهم ويسيئون إلي ، وأحلم عنهم ويجهلون علي ، قال له - عليه الصلاة والسلام - : ( لئن كنت كما قلت فكأنما تُسِفُّهُم الملَّ ، ولا يزال معك من الله ظهير عليهم ما دمت على ذلك ) رواه مسلم ، والملُّ هو الرَّماد الحار ، فكأنه شبه ما يلحقهم من الألم والإثم - والحالة هذه - بما يلحق آكل الرماد الحار .

    فهذا مما يبقي على الودّ ، ويحفظ ما بين الأقارب من العهد , ويهون على الإنسان ما يلقاه من إساءة أقاربه ، ومقابلة معروفه بالنكران ، وصلته بالهجران ، وفيه حث للمحسنين على أن يستمروا في إحسانهم ، فإن الله معهم ومؤيدهم ومثيبهم على عملهم .





     

     

     

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